Saturday, September 18, 2010

Something New and Yes, DETAILS!!!

I found this over at Writing Letters in My Scrubs, and I think that it's an amazing idea! I will start it tomorrow for sure!

Day 01 → Something you hate about yourself.
Day 02 → Something you love about yourself.
Day 03 → Something you have to forgive yourself for.
Day 04 → Something you have to forgive someone for.
Day 05 → Something you hope to do in your life.
Day 06 → Something you hope you never have to do.
Day 07 → Someone who has made your life worth living for.
Day 08 → Someone who made your life hell, or treated you like shit.
Day 09 → Someone you didn’t want to let go, but just drifted.
Day 10 → Someone you need to let go, or wish you didn’t know.
Day 11 → Something people seem to compliment you the most on.
Day 12 → Something you never get compliments on.
Day 13 → A band or artist that has gotten you through some tough ass days. (write a letter.)
Day 14 → A hero that has let you down. (letter)
Day 15 → Something or someone you couldn’t live without, because you’ve tried living without it.
Day 16 → Someone or something you definitely could live without.
Day 17 → A book you’ve read that changed your views on something.
Day 18 → Your views on gay marriage.
Day 19 → What do you think of religion? Or what do you think of politics?
Day 20 → Your views on drugs and alcohol.
Day 21 → (scenario) Your best friend is in a car accident and you two got into a fight an hour before. What do you do?
Day 22 → Something you wish you hadn’t done in your life.
Day 23 → Something you wish you had done in your life.
Day 24 → Make a playlist to someone, and explain why you chose all the songs. (Just post the titles and artists and letter)
Day 25 → The reason you believe you’re still alive today.
Day 26 → Have you ever thought about giving up on life? If so, when and why?
Day 27 → What’s the best thing going for you right now?
Day 28 → What if you were pregnant or got someone pregnant, what would you do?
Day 29 → Something you hope to change about yourself. And why.
Day 30 → A letter to yourself, tell yourself EVERYTHING you love about yourself

And da da da daaaa...details!

He asked me on July 20th at 8 at night over the phone. Yes, I know, over the phone. Now, I know what some of ya'll are thinking, I would be too. Over the phone really? Wth??? But he won't be home until Christmas and I basically knew it was coming because
He sucks at keeping secrets, he had been dropping hints for the past month: I have a question for you when I come home and stuff like that. He was originally gonna do it when I graduate, bc he thought that was in December but then realized I graduate in May when he's deployed (MAKES ME WANNA CRY!!) so....he was just like well Icould just ask when I get home...but he decided to go ahead and do it.

"MJ I want to ask you something..."
MJ( thinking to herself :he's gonna do it over the phone? Ok...)"What?"
"Well depending on your answer it could be really bad or really good."
"MJ, I love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you (at this point I'm thinking,I knew it!) and I want to know will you marry me?"
MJ pauses for a few seconds "yeah! I mean, of course, Yeah, yes! Of course! You even have to ask? I thought it was implied by now!"

So that's how it happened, and yes, I am going to make him redo it when he comes home over Christmas, the whole get down on one knee bit and all! Bc right now I think of it like I'm not engaged, I'm "engaged" bc no ring and not in person...but then again he asked and I said yes so I guess that makes it official!

I was so stoked the whole week after, like lieterally could not believe didn't even suck! It turns out his Mama had known for literally MONTHS since like April. So these are my details :) Right now I'm so happy with my life, with the exception of some work situations...but like I said after stuff happens I'll have to spill all!


  1. awww.. over the phone is ok. I don't think it matters how it's done as long as it's done by the person YOU love and want to spend the rest of your life with. How exciting!!

  2. Congratulations!!! I can't wait until he does it in person. If you need wedding help, let me know (when the time comes)!

  3. Aww yay!! I am so happy for you! And over the phone is still romantic. It's the thought that counts and we all know we can't always be with our men. Congratulations lovey<3

  4. WHAT!? EEK! I'm glad I backed up and read some things! How exciting! :D Congrats dear! I'm so happy for you!


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