Okay I'm having a reallly really really bad urge to comment on something Mister's dad left on his fb page. It's not bad, it says I love you and junk but I have this ridiculous urge to be like 'YOU LIAR! IF YOU LOVED HIM YOU WOULDN'T HAVE CALLED HIM NAMES AND MADE HIM FEEL LIKE SHIT AND IGNORED HIM FOR THE FIRST YEARS OF HIS LIFE! GET OUT OF IT NOW!" But I won't because I'm a decent person. I also have the urge to add in something like "If you hurt him again I swear to well idk I don't swear to God, but I swear I will come and find you. I promise you that if you insult him, yell at him, try to steal his identity *ahem*, or in any way make him feel bad you will get it." BUT...again I'm a good person. But it is just OH so tempting. I am literally shaking right now with the effort to resist. I freaking hate his dad. He may not, but I do. His dad is scum and I wish they had never gotten back in touch.
Ugh. Just ugh. What do I do??? Just ignore it and pretend like I"m soooo happy when really my heart and my mine is screaming "Bad decision! He's gonna hurt him, don't let it happen!" :/
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Yeah I wouldn't say anything. I don't have a good relationship with my dad and the constant peace I have is knowing that I have a loving boyfriend that is my rock and strength. That is what I am sure you are for him.
ReplyDeleteYou're right. I need to resist and just be there for him not matter what happens. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteI'm going to say the harsh answer - but I say it out of love.
ReplyDeleteIt's HIS relationship with his father. If he chose to let him back into his life and he wants to try to mend it, it's his choice. You need to support that. If it's going to hurt him, he needs to figure that out. On the other hand, it could get better and you need to get out of the way and let it happen. Be loving to him and let him deal with his relationship with his dad. When and ONLY when his dad does something to YOU can you step in.
I know...and I've calmed down since I wrote thsi and realized that what happens happens, and if it's meant to be who am I to stop it?
ReplyDeleteI hope it gets better, idk how it could get worse! Lol thanks Mel